Eh… maybe it’s just a grass is greener thing, but I would like to say “Japan Please Stay Japanese! Retreating to a coffee shop, Sasaki explains that she is used to being single and celibate and is not desperate to find a partner. Sasaki lives alone in a small apartment just outside Tokyo with ginger-hued Nichi and spends much of her free time with her. “On weekends I often take Nichi to special ‘rabbit cafés’ where she can play with other rabbits,” says Sasaki.

  • For example, media reports often focus on the apologies of criminals’ mothers.
  • They’re always sweet submissive dolls; they’d make perfect wives.” Suddenly, they don’t seem as nice.
  • In Hokusai’s print we can also see the woman’s eyes are closed – this is perhaps one of the most significant elements of the image.
  • I actually find the cultural differences help keep things interesting.
  • Many Asian cultures are built on respect, which is often shown through difference in formalities in greetings, honorifics, and more.

Around me, three different customers were about to buy dirty panties. Hiroko then check it out on asked them why many of the stereotypes remain despite being false.

Many Japanese wives think it is fine to unilaterally shut down sex after having kids. But the speaker is correct, if the couple isn’t prepared to stand up to family pressure, their love isn’t enough. Nor is your spouse responsible for your happiness. You have to be in a relationship already in a state of happiness and maintain your own happiness.

Personally, I look forward to seeing them getting their ass kicked by an elderly asian woman. White guys who only date non-white women are usually really gross either way.

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BUT, every now and then…i personally don’t see the harm in it… I couldn’t imagine NOT having any affectionate holding and kissing…

Until 1908, it remained legal for husbands to murder wives for infidelity. In one poll, 30% of mothers who returned to work reported being victims of “maternity harassment”, or “matahara”. The obento box tradition, where mothers prepare elaborate lunches for their children to take to school, is an example of a domestic female role. In interviews with Japanese housewives in 1985, researchers found that socialized feminine behavior in Japan followed several patterns of modesty, tidiness, courtesy, compliance, and self-reliance. Modesty extended to the effective use of silence in both daily conversations and activities.

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In fact, it is much fairer than relationships I have been in in the past. As she is from Japan , there are some expectations on me as a man. Many Japanese men work very hard to provide for their families and society holds expectations that they do so.

Asian women are exotic but also make a lot of money (no gold-diggers here!). Men find them “intoxicating.” They’re loyal, and “dedicated to their men.” An Asian woman “always thinks of her man first! ” They’ll help with financial planning without being “intrusive”–that is, they’ll make suggestions, but it’s ultimately up to him to decide and she’ll accept whatever he decides on. So they aren’t trying to use you to get to the U.S. (though, after stating these are women living in the U.S., they are always described as Asian, not Asian American).

I’m so sick of this post-modern nonsense about how all stereotypes are 100% false. Just b/c I presented pleasantly in public didn’t mean that I was a pushover.

So it’s not an issue of ‘nurseries are bad for children’, it’s an issue of ‘we want more input into our child’s life, rather than having the teachers at the nursery responsible for most of it’. It isn’t about exposing kiddies to ‘nasty cooties’ or fear of them picking up ‘strange antisocial beliefs or habits’.